Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Love comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it, do you think that is true most of the time?

Women, in all honesty have romance, dating, and relationships easier, but us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it.Love comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it, do you think that is true most of the time?
Women might have a slight advantage when it comes to starting a relationship because guys are usually the ones to initiate it. Guys being the pursuers is a biological urge and we constantly hear that they love the thrill of the chase. This isn't always true, however; the womens' movement, shows like Sex and the City, and the rise of the metrosexual male and the dominant woman have all contributed to more females just going after guys they like instead of waiting around for the guy to call or something.


Once in the relationship, things are more equal and both partners have to struggle to make it work. In my opinion, I think guys are far less likely to sacrifice their friends, hobbies or careers for the relationship; women are more likely to give 100%.


When it comes to sex, guys definitely have it MUCH easier. For example, it's very difficult for most women to hook-up with no strings attached. Girls who sleep around often suffer emotionally while it seems to be a source of pride for guys. Not to mention the social stigmas: the guy ';gets some,'; the girl ';gives it up.'; If a girl doesn't want sex, she's a tease, if she does, she's a slut. You rarely hear those labels applied to men. Physically, girls constantly have to worry about pregnancy, are more susceptible to infections and STDs, and generally get less pleasure out of sex (guys are practically guaranteed an orgasm). I could go on and on with reasons why you should be thankful that you're male.Love comes to Women, us Men have to fight tooth and nail for it, do you think that is true most of the time?
In today's society women have taken a discipline of '; I can do what a man can do';, well , technically yes, BUT, along with that attitude comes the man who wants to be protective meaning that a man, today, checks out a woman and foresees what may become of him if they separate. This generation floats on Financial liabilites in what will He/ She get if they brake up. AAH!...love? What is its role in today's lifestyle? Seems like most of us during the arguing moments forget why both of them became a couple in the first place.
It's hard for women too to find love. It seems that in this age, people look on relationships like a business...what it can do for them...instead of thinking of what they can truely ';give'; to another person, in order to make their life ';better'; in some way. A true union is two people who guard each others backs, and complement each others weaknesses and strengths without changing what the other ';is';.
that's not always true. i'm a woman and i always have to give everything.the guy i love now is so hard to please and it still seems like it isn't enough. i have so much to give but noone wants it. i'm about ready to give up....
I agree .. but i think thats the exciting part for men in the first place isn't it

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